Taking Responsibility: the barriers we put up that get in the way of the relationships we want

Working as a family violence telephone operator I speak with hundreds of men from many different relationship and life contexts. When I speak to men that have chosen to behave in a way that causes problems...

5 lessons learned from speaking with men who use family violence

For the past few years I’ve worked as a family violence telephone operator, speaking with hundreds of men from all walks of life who have used many different forms of abusive, controlling behaviours...

National Working With Men to Tackle Family Violence Conference Wrap

Over 250 delegates from the family violence sector met at the National Working with Men to Tackle Family Violence Conference to share practical solutions to ending men’s violence against women and...

About family violence

Family violence is a pattern of abusive and controlling behaviours that take many different forms. It happens within intimate relationships as well as between family members and is rarely a one-off incident.

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About us

No To Violence incorporating the Men’s Referral Service (NTV/MRS) is the peak body for organisations and individuals working with men to end family violence in Victoria and New South Wales. Through the Men's Referral Service, we also provide telephone counselling, information and referrals for men impacted by family violence in Victoria, Tasmania and New South Wales.

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